The evolution of Joelle "JoJo" Siwa has been nothing short of a public spectacle, transitioning from the high-ponytail, bow-clad child star of Dance Moms to a provocative, boundary-pushing pop artist. Yet, behind the "Karma" makeup and the high-octane choreography lies a 22-year-old woman increasingly focused on a future that includes more than just world tours and chart-topping singles. Recently, Siwa has opened up about a significant shift in her personal life, one fueled by a whirlwind romance with Love Island alum Chris Hughes and a newfound, intense desire to start a family. This "baby fever," as she describes it, isn’t just a fleeting thought; it is a vision for a future that she hopes will include children who inherit the striking features of her current partner.
The catalyst for this emotional revelation stems from a piece of poignant advice given by one of Siwa’s close friends in the industry, Meghan Trainor. According to Siwa, the "All About That Bass" singer offered a litmus test for true love that resonated deeply with the young star. Trainor reportedly told her that the moment she truly loved someone, she would feel an overwhelming urge to "duplicate" them—to bring a child into the world that serves as a living, breathing reflection of that person. For Siwa, that moment arrived shortly after she began dating the 33-year-old Hughes. The realization was immediate: she didn’t just love him; she wanted a "mini Chris."
The relationship between Siwa and Hughes blossomed under the unique, pressure-cooker environment of Celebrity Big Brother UK during its 24th season. While the show is often a breeding ground for fleeting "showmances," the bond between the American pop star and the British reality veteran proved to be something far more substantial. After confirming their romance in June, the pair has been inseparable, navigating the complexities of a long-distance relationship and the scrutiny of international tabloids. For Siwa, the attraction was solidified not just by Hughes’ personality, but by a glimpse into his past. She recounted a moment when Hughes sent her a childhood photograph of himself—a candid shot of him sitting in a trash can—which she found so endearing it triggered an immediate "uh oh" moment, signaling that her maternal instincts were officially in overdrive.
Despite the intensity of her feelings, the couple’s approach to family planning remains lighthearted for now. Siwa, who has previously voiced a desire to begin her journey into motherhood around the age of 23, recently experimented with AI technology to catch a glimpse of what their future offspring might look like. In a humorous anecdote shared with E! News, she revealed that she posted an AI-generated photo of their potential children to social media, only to be met with silence from Hughes. When she eventually confronted him about his lack of feedback, the result was a classic case of reality TV-style confusion. Hughes insisted they had already discussed the photo at length, only to realize he had actually had that deep conversation with his best friend, Jack, rather than with JoJo herself.
Beyond the humor, Siwa’s vision for her children has also undergone a stylistic rebranding. Long gone are the days when she planned to name a daughter Freddie or twin boys Eddy and Teddy. Her current preference leans toward a more monochromatic elegance: "Silver Siwa." It is a name that reflects her penchant for the theatrical while marking a departure from the more traditional monikers she once favored.
To understand the weight of Siwa’s current relationship with Hughes, one must look back at the tumultuous and highly publicized dating history that led her to this point. Since coming out in early 2021, Siwa’s romantic life has been a series of "pyramid-topping" highs and devastating lows, often played out across TikTok and Instagram. Her first public relationship was with Mark Bontempo in 2020. At just 17, Siwa was navigating the transition from child star to teenager, and while she defended Bontempo against online vitriol following their breakup, it was clear that her journey of self-discovery was only just beginning.
The most pivotal moment in her personal history occurred in February 2021, when she introduced the world to Kylie Prew. Their relationship was more than just a romance; it was a cultural milestone. Prew was the person who encouraged Siwa to embrace her queer identity publicly, supporting her as she wore her "Best Gay Cousin Ever" shirt and danced to Lady Gaga’s "Born This Way" on social media. Though the pair eventually split after a brief reconciliation in 2022, they remain close friends, with Siwa often citing the relationship as a foundational experience that shaped her understanding of intimacy and trauma.
However, not all of Siwa’s past romances ended on such amicable terms. Her brief stint with TikToker Katie Mills in early 2022 was marred by later accusations of "love bombing" and "clout chasing." While Siwa used her platform to call out what she perceived as disingenuous behavior from her exes, Mills fired back with "text receipts," accusing Siwa of ghosting her and using her fame as a weapon. This pattern of public friction continued with YouTuber Avery Cyrus. After a 12-day "anniversary" celebration and public declarations of a "D.R.E.A.M." life together, the relationship imploded in December 2022. Siwa claimed she was "used for views and clout," a sentiment that highlighted the difficulties of dating as a high-profile influencer where every interaction is potential content.
In 2024, Siwa appeared to find stability with Dakayla Wilson, a standout performer from So You Think You Can Dance. The relationship seemed serious, with Siwa spending $30,000 on a lavish birthday trip to Hawaii and claiming that Wilson was fully on board with her plans for triplets. Yet, by the holiday season, the two had gone their separate ways, leaving Siwa to enter 2025 with a fresh perspective.
The transition to her current state of happiness began with a brief relationship with Australian creator Kath Ebbs in early 2025. While the pair shared "queer joy" on their feeds, the relationship came to an abrupt end during the wrap-party for Celebrity Big Brother UK. It was during her time in the house that Siwa experienced a profound internal shift. Isolated from the outside world and the "outside opinions" that usually dictated her life, she realized that her connection with Ebbs wasn’t the "foreseeable future" she truly wanted. It was this clarity that allowed her to see Chris Hughes not just as a friend or a fellow competitor, but as a partner.
Today, Siwa describes her connection with Hughes as "not platonic anymore" and "absolutely head over heels." While she continues to use the term "queer" to describe her identity—viewing it as a broad umbrella that encompasses her fluid understanding of love—she remains focused on the person rather than the label. For a woman who has spent her entire life under the microscope, the stability she seems to have found with Hughes represents a new kind of maturity.
As Siwa approaches her self-imposed deadline for motherhood, the public is watching a version of the star that is more grounded yet more ambitious than ever. Whether "Silver Siwa" becomes a reality in the next year or the timeline shifts, one thing is certain: JoJo Siwa is no longer just following a script written by producers or publicists. She is drafting her own narrative, one that prioritizes genuine connection, family legacy, and the pursuit of a love that makes her want to "duplicate" the best parts of her life. In the ever-evolving world of celebrity, Siwa’s journey from the dance floor to the nursery is a testament to the complicated, messy, and ultimately beautiful process of growing up in the spotlight.
