Ruco Chan Reflects on His Journey with Phoebe Sin: A Love Story Forged in Trust and Protection
Hong Kong actor Ruco Chan, a beloved figure in the entertainment industry, recently opened up about his eight-year marriage to his wife, Phoebe Sin. In a candid interview, Chan shared intimate details of their love story, highlighting the profound gratitude he feels for Sin’s unwavering support and sacrifices throughout their relationship. Their journey, from an unexpected meeting at a prestigious pageant to navigating the intense scrutiny of the media, has solidified a bond built on deep trust and a fierce desire to protect one another.
An Unexpected Connection at Miss Hong Kong
The genesis of Ruco Chan and Phoebe Sin’s romance can be traced back to the Miss Hong Kong Pageant in 2016. Chan, a prominent figure in the television and film world, served as a judge for the finals, a role that unexpectedly placed him in Phoebe’s orbit. While Chan admits that his initial attraction wasn’t a classic case of love at first sight, he was deeply struck by Phoebe’s presence. He recalled, “Back then, she wasn’t ‘curvy,’ she was chubby, but when I saw her, I felt a strong urge to protect her and support her.” This protective instinct, he revealed, was the spark that ignited his deeper feelings.
Following the pageant, Chan and Sin’s paths continued to cross due to their professional engagements. However, it was a chance encounter at a party, where they shared a moment captured in a photograph, that truly began to bridge the gap between them. Chan confessed that he had already developed feelings for Phoebe by this point, but he was careful to maintain a professional demeanor, not wanting to rush or pressure her. He ingeniously used the excuse of obtaining a copy of their shared photograph as a pretext to initiate contact on social media. “I asked her to send me a photo because it was taken on her phone, but I didn’t WhatsApp her. Instead, we chatted in the Instagram inbox,” he explained, detailing the subtle, yet deliberate, steps he took to foster their connection.
When the topic of Phoebe’s earlier public statement about having a “crush” on Ruco was brought up, Chan quickly clarified, with a playful smile, “She was my image consultant. She said I was a good man. It was just her way of showing affection. I liked her more!” This lighthearted exchange underscored the mutual affection that had begun to blossom between them, moving beyond professional admiration to something far more personal.
Navigating the Storm of Media Attention
What truly solidified Ruco Chan’s decision to pursue Phoebe wholeheartedly was her profound trust in him. Chan, who has often found himself misunderstood by the public, revealed that Phoebe’s ability to see past any external narratives was a significant factor. “From a young age, I’ve always been easily misunderstood. If I don’t say anything, or when I say something, people easily misunderstand, but not her. She trusts me,” he shared, emphasizing the rarity and preciousness of such unwavering faith.
As their relationship became public knowledge, Ruco and Phoebe found themselves thrust into the relentless glare of media attention. While Chan, with his seasoned experience in the industry, remained largely unfazed by the gossip, understanding that truth often prevails, he harbored concerns for Phoebe, who was relatively new to the public eye. He expressed his deep-seated desire to shield her from the pressures and potential negativity that often accompany celebrity relationships. “At the time, many magazines reported on it. If you don’t speak up or comment, they’ll just assume. I didn’t want her to be affected by this shadow, so my reaction was very strong. Many people thought I was being rude and said I was acting pretentious. I knew very well what I was doing. Besides, we were already dating and almost (married), so I had to protect her first,” he explained, detailing his assertive stance in defending their relationship.
Phoebe’s absolute trust in him was further demonstrated during a challenging period when Ruco’s mother was unwell. The constant presence of reporters seeking to capture photographs of his ailing mother created immense stress. Ruco, prioritizing his mother’s privacy and Phoebe’s well-being, asked Phoebe to stay indoors for a week, a request she readily and without hesitation fulfilled. “My mother wasn’t feeling well and many reporters rushed to take pictures of her. I told Phoebe not to go out for a week, so she really didn’t go out for a week,” he recounted, his voice filled with admiration. During this time, Chan had to travel to Hengdian to film the historical drama *Succession War* for two months. While he was away, Phoebe remained in Hong Kong, patiently waiting for his return, a testament to her steadfast commitment. This unwavering trust and silent support, Chan revealed, solidified his conviction that Phoebe was “the right person” for him.
A Proposal with a Twist: Two Attempts, One Lasting Love
After a courtship of approximately two years, Ruco Chan and Phoebe Sin exchanged vows in 2018. When reminiscing about the proposal, Chan described it as being decidedly “old-fashioned,” albeit with a touch of personal flair. His initial attempt at a proposal was rather unconventional: he secretly placed the ring on Phoebe’s finger while she was asleep. As might be expected, this somewhat subdued gesture did not quite meet Phoebe’s expectations. “That’s it? I was sleeping! No, you have to do it again,” she exclaimed, her playful dissatisfaction prompting a more formal and romantic second attempt.
Undeterred, Chan orchestrated a more traditional proposal in England, complete with flowers, which ultimately won Phoebe over. He humorously recalled her reaction: “She said, ‘You have so many tricks up your sleeve when you’re filming, why was it not romantic?’ I replied, ‘It was just filming.’” This anecdote highlights the endearing blend of romanticism and practicality that characterizes their relationship.
Despite the 13-year age difference between them, Ruco Chan firmly believes that their personalities are remarkably compatible. He attributes the success and longevity of their marriage to the pillars of mutual understanding and trust. “Simplicity may not be the greatest happiness, but happiness is definitely simple,” he mused, encapsulating his philosophy on enduring love and contentment. This sentiment reflects a mature understanding of relationships, where genuine connection and peace of mind are valued above grand gestures.
Ruco Chan’s reflections offer a poignant glimpse into a love story that has weathered the storms of public life and emerged stronger. His unwavering admiration for Phoebe Sin, her quiet strength, and her profound trust have evidently shaped their journey together. The narrative of their relationship serves as an inspiring reminder that true love often thrives in the quiet spaces of mutual respect, unwavering support, and the simple, profound act of choosing to protect and cherish one another amidst the complexities of life.
